I've had this conversation with a small, very distinguished set of friends over the past few days. Nurture vs. Nature. I was, read was again. a staunch believer in nurture. In other words, I am who I am because of the fact that the people who raised me and the place in which I was raised played a significant part in who I am today.
To give you an idea, I was raised catholic in a southern city by pseudo-liberals turned conservative in the 70's and 80's. Don't try to tell me I love the A-Team and the Dukes of Hazzard because I'm an aquarius, hippies.
I believe we're a result of our environment. Case in point, if I grew up in Seattle, would I really know what a moonpie was and have an almost tribal appreciation of them? No way. Ask a native Washingtonian "What's a moonpie?" and they'll probably answer, "cowshit on the moon?"
Nurture. I had a great, laid back dad, and I'm laid back. (dad's still around, I just don't talk to him). I don't think that's genetic because Mom is rat-shat crazy. Not laid back at all. Neither are my bro or sis. Not genetic.
Now the nature - how is it astrologers can pigeon-hole me into a box as an aquarius? There must be something in my nature about that but I don't believe there are only 12 kinds of people in the world.
In other news, I'm working on an invention that counter-acts that "It's on the tip of my tongue" feeling you get. Won't it be nice when you're thinking of something you can't quite remember or articulate ala "I know I know it, I just can't think of it . . ." or ". . . Its' on the tip of my tongue. . . " to just be there, not on the tip of your tongue but actually being spoken? Well, Tricia, my business partner, and I are working on that. Don't bogart it, haters.
In other news, don't you just fecking hate it when you buy a new bike and it rains for 2 weeks so you don't get to ride it? I didn't buy a new bike, but I hate that feeling.

